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The human race will need to accept everyone from all sex,colour and race,to truly exist in harmony on this very small planet,called Earth. Through elimanating hatred,judgment and wars, I believe that love & peace will follow.
Since that language is Arabic this is tripple stupid. After over four years in Iraq only a few Americans have bothered to learn Arabic. No wonder we mess up relations with Iraquis. The pejudices of intolerant people are evidently more important than success.
I dream of a day in which all U.S. soldiers say they are gay to END this war.
YES, of course that isn't ethical but neither is the present situation. It is just a thought, not something I can actually condone.
Either way, I Hope you can Honor my predicament.
THANKS & BLESSINGS,
Rev. Gina
wpeaks a foreign language. If that laguagr were Arabic this would be tripple stupid. After over four years in Iraq only a few Americans have bothered to learn Arabic. No wonder we mess up
relations with Iraquis.
Gay men are fine. Hetero men are fine. Even the homo-phobic men are fine (although deeply disturbed about their own sexuality which has been proven time and time again). Everyone is fine, if we just left each other alone and stopped fighting about EVERYthing.
Peace.
At least watch the last segment again, the part that lists all the countries who integrate gays into their armed forces, and see if some questions don't come up for you?
Good luck on joining a bigger world.
practice their fears and hate have to be taught that all men and women have the same spiritual value endowed by God.
I am a straight former Marine who served in the Korean war and had no idea who was gay or otherwise.
practice their fears and hate have to be taught that all men and women have the same spiritual value endowed by God.
I am a straight former Marine who served in the Korean war and had no idea who was gay or otherwise.
"I dream of a day in which all U.S. soldiers say they are gay to END this war.
YES, of course that isn't ethical but neither is the present situation. It is just a thought, not something I can actually condone.
Either way, I Hope you can Honor my predicament.
THANKS & BLESSINGS, Rev. Gina"
Reverend Giva -- part of adulthood, in the world we've inherited, is admitting that one cannot always tell the truth to everyone. I used to have hard standards in this regard, but my own listing of who deserves the truth, and who will only use it against me, has gone through massive adjustment over the years.
In your example, I'd look at the lies the administration tells us every day, and the lies the military tells us and our soldiers; and ask if the onus to be truthful should fall only on one party in the conversation. Our preference for true statements is being used against us, and against the world. Sad but true: those in power deserve to be lied to.
As for the war ending if all soldiers claimed they were gay, it wouldn't happen -- because the DADT policy would blow away so fast in the desert wind-
This reminds me of another plan I once thought would work -- that laid out in Lysistrada, in which all the women refuse sexual favors until the men stop fighting wars. This plan WOULD actually work -- if women could take the sudden excalation of rapes, beatings, and murders. If anything could mend that flaw in the plan, I'd be for it.
I get tired of hearing about freedom in America; it's issues like homosexuality that put American's beliefs in freedom to the test. Alot of other minorities also still have a long way to go, of course people like Deirdrick wouldn't know because he's never had to walk a day in our shoes.
Deirdrick says we want people to feel sorry for us; I don't want your sympathy, I just want the same rights that everyone else has in this so-called free country. I want you to learn how to live and let live, and leave me the hell alone.
If we had true separation of church and state in this country our problems would be greatly diminished. Most of the founding fathers understood this, but two hundred years later, most Americans still can't get it through their thick heads.
Don't get me wrong, I love America, but it has a long way to go to fulfill it's promises, with so many hypocrites around.
You are the one who is confused. Gay men do not act "like females." They act like gay men. Your analogy to aliens is lamentable on two counts. If friendly aliens came to Earth, and didn't make life hard for us, why on Earth should we NOT accept them as neighbors and co-workers? If you believe in god, do you think god didn't create the aliens, that they aren't his children/sheep?
The second way your analogy is flawed is that even you would have to admit that extraterrestrial aliens couldn't help being what (-ever) they are. And yet your intolerance would still extend to them. But you insist that gays are gays because girls rejected them at a formative moment.
Not. Gays are gays. Your attitude is the one the military uses to frighten straight soldiers (who largely think like you do, that gay is a choice), that they could (but for the grace of macho) be gay themselves. It's a straw fear: straights are straights.
Get it straight (sic). Straights CAN'T think gay, and gays CAN'T think "straight". Though nothing could stop either from trying, it will only confuse the issue further for them. So yes, SOME who think they are gay may be confused straights, but also vice versa. The lack of accurate and unbiased information on gender preference (and yes, from a young age) in this country makes that confusion more likely.
Ask yourself: what would Jesus do, if a gay man put a hand on his thigh? If you think Jesus would choose to change the man's self-concept, as a way of "curing" him of his "defect", then you won't have a problem with having your own personality "adjusted," when your own misapprehensions, confusions, and habits become inconvenient to the mainstream.
We should be grateful for each and every solider --Gay, Straight, or Bisexual-- who is willing to fight for this country in an illegal and unpopular war!
Oh, but we are talking Washington.
We talk and write about how we respect equality for our diverse nation. Perhaps this is referring to diversity in what we eat, which cars we drive, the span of our ages, but it certainly not in the areas that make us each uniques individuals. Certainly this does not mean we celebrate diversity in the color of our skin, the accents of our speach, which gender we happen to be born, or what our sexual preferences are!
Personally, just because I am heterosexual does not mean that I am greater than all the homosexuals, lesbians, and bi-sexuals in this world. How narcissitic to think that because a person may marry, or engage in a sexual relationship with the opposite sex that you are the "elite," and have the right to fight for our country!
It is difficult for me to comprehend that in the 21st Century, American's continue to force certain populations into oppression. If this isn't evidence that those in power continue to be the Caucasian males in our society we should just place a big "I" on our foreheads to indicate the depth of our ignorance!
I wonder why so many in positions of leadership get up on platforms and talk-the-talk of equality & fairness, yet they continue to walk a path that falls short of respecting equality, knowing they are leading others by their examples in their continued display of discrimination.
I sometimes wonder if I really am living in just another form of the Dark Ages instead of in the 21st Century.
It's sad that you got fired from the Navy for being gay. I'm against that policy. But I kind of resent how it was presented here. It's like, wait a second, I'm supposed to use my outrage over some stupid military policy (one of so many)? Sorry, I think we should all really be outraged about THIS WAR, goddammit. Fix the military later. Thousands of innocent people are dying for NOTHING.
If we want this policy to be repealed I'll tell you the quickest way to do it...
As a group, gays & lesbians should collectively REFUSE to serve. Just watch how fast things change then.
How does sexual orientation make human beings different from one another? It doesn't!! We are the same, from American to Zionist, from Arabian to Zambian; we are all "VULNERABLE."
Times have changed. I believe it was about 1986 when being gay was no longer grounds for dismissal. A few years back, there was a guy (now gal) who had gender reassignment surgery and remained in the Forces. Interestingly enough, her partner was a police officer who also underwent gender reassignment surgery, so they went from being a gay couple to being a lesbian couple. A couple of years ago, we had our first gay marriage between 2 men serving in the Canadian Forces. And somehow our Armed Forces has not turned to a state of anarchy. OK, so we don't have the firepower that our US neighbours have, but that is an entirely different issue.
I general, as a heterosexual, life is a lot easier for me than it is for my gay colleagues. We still have our share of knuckle-dragging Neanderthals, but progress is being made up here and am sure it will happen in your country as well.
Answer:
"Hello Mother... this is Mark Bingham"
This is code. Can anyone tell me the meaning?
Clue: Which word is not natural?
why is the extreme right doing a number on these people. There are more important things for the government to do.
Let's get our Arabic speakers back.
Anyone who is willing to serve this country is welcome to do so and the milatary needs to get its act togther.
END DON'T ASK/DON'T TELL.
http://www2.jsonline.com/news/nat/ap/aug01/ap-s...
-Tim Beauchamp
END DON'T ASK/DON'T TELL!
I have convinced a few people by explaining that this bigotry gives others the power of intimidation and blackmail. This is a greater threat to our country than any military enemy.
Instead, we should be throwing out the heterosexual men who rape and intimidate women in (& out) of the military.
We are a county that should celebrate each person for their skills & talents and encourge optimum use of these gifts.
I am proud and appreciate that these persons are willing to protect us with their lives.
I admire them and sincerely Thank all men and women who are so brave.
It is certainly refreshing that they are fighting and giving of themselves in the line of fire 24/7.
Who can you think of in High Office who not gone into the military to serve???
now i stumble across this site, lured by seemingly promising topics and eager to hear from the rest of the choir.
you're cut from the same cloth as karl rove and dick cheney, eager to run recklessly through our nation and its traditional values. guess what?? the majority of americans find homosexuality quite offensive. the military is not, nor ever should be, subject to the civilian standards that are prevelant today. (yes, much progress has been made in acceptance, maybe a bit of tolerance, and certain workplace protections.)
now that so many americans are rejecting extremist policies why do you insist on the same approach of disdain and disregard for americans? i see a few posts allegedly from people in the military: They are quite uncomfortable with homosexuals in the midst of the troops in some rather close quarters. the kid fucking lied, he does not belong in the military.
of course, you jackasses despise the military with not one fucking acknowledgment that it remains essential to any sovereignty. maybe, hopefully, humans will continue to ascend to higher levels of love and understanding and create a society that totally rejects all violence.
it is a noble goal. i usually consider the democratic party far closer to my standards and values. it infuriates me when people try to foist upon the nation any form of extremism (yeah, most people in the US do consider homosexuality as an aberrant sexuality.) public policy and perception can often seem as taking place at the breathtaking, lightning speed of a glacier.
i do not know the values of your geographic community, but suspect they fall short of what you (and many of your readers) deem an egalitarian society.
your blatant attacks on the military and insistence on primacy for homosexuals are quite offensive to most of the country and those positions have been the suicidal policy of democrats. i am dumbfounded to see you engaging those same defeated points.
your abject hatred for the military betrays your disconnect from our nation. who the hell said you have to agree? i detest the current administraion and its attack on the constitution. are you suffering some sort of brain anomaly that keeps reality from consideration?
i am in the military (national guard), and have a few letters i can tack onto the end of my name. i have been in iraq, doing my best to serve and safeguard our kids. i sincerely hope they return home as quickly as possible. i hope their experiences will factor into every subsequent decision they make.
at the risk of riding same cloud you are on, i also hope that one day they can restore the nation to the truly promising political experiment that i was fortunate to know as a child.
you want change? toss the feces you're currently launching at any and all opponents, examine the best way to realistically acheive the matters that are important to you. i doubt any of you are so terribly blinded that you do not realize that attaining your goals is far more realistic if already in office.
please, don't kill my burro.
Oldcowboy states that most Americans think homosexuality is deviant behavior. Since most Americans also cannot name the Chief Justice of the Supreme Court, I could care less what the majority of Americans think about any given subject, much less when it concerns matters of foreign and/or military policy. As an honorably discharged veteran of the 82nd Airborne, I could also care less what your sexual orientation is, as long as you're willing to fire a weapon at the enemy. I'd rather have a gay man fighting next to me in the foxholes than no man.
In lieu of never being able to know for sure, the only responsible course of action is to presume the worst. I will therefore state the following assumptions as if they are fact: Eliminating this translator has resulted in preventable US military deaths. It has provided aid and comfort to the enemy. I will remind everyone of the four Americans who fought back against the terrorists on Flight 93 over Pennsylvania on September 11. One of the men, Mark Bingham, was gay. Apparently, God did not discriminate when he placed Mark Bingham in that role. Far be it from me to discern the workings behind the mind of God, but I will go so far as to say this: Mark Bingham's act proved that when push comes to shove, it doesn't matter what your sexual orientation is-- all that matters is your will to fight. This translator amply demonstrated not only a fine will, but a fine ability to fight. We are weaker today because of his ouster.
-Paul Ronco
Fredericksburg, VA
You're hilarious. Please write more.
My second girlfriend was gorgeous (a playboy model, 1991)was in love with me and I had to let her down easy, WE ALSO were still friends afterwards.
OBVIOUSLY I'm a stud simply by attracting such hotties, as they BOTH asked ME out first, so I'm far from insecure and if you spoke those words to my face about my friends (GLBT people) I would slap you like a bitch and show you who's effeminate. GOT IT?
Oh, by the way: I'm so freakin gay most can't believe it! SO, I GUESS I SHOT ALL OF YOUR B.S. THEORIES "STRAIGHT" TO HELL, DIDN'T I? Tee Hee, Giggle Giggle ! ;D
America has always been & will always be waaaaaay ahead in the realm of technology, but we've always been and (sadly) may always be troglodytes when it comes to sexuality, emotions, etc. It's not a good or healthy situation!
Just as in the anti-bullying trainings where the emphasis must be on activating the 'bystanders' more than on working with the bullies or victims--(in order to make change, the bystanders must speak up, stand up, take action to say that bullying is wrong & won't be tolerated)--so that the normative view within the whole culture is NOT bullying--in just that same way, all of us who feel homophobia is wrong must be more 'out' (HA) about not accepting it & the violence it often creates.
Yes, it takes nerve, guts, risk, etc.--same as it does to say something when someone says racist or sexist things--but our society will not be able to relax, be happy, make full use of all the extraordinary talents & abilities that each person can contribute, & enjoy our relatively few years on earth unless we ALL decide to work on this. Form discussion groups! Don't be afraid to voice your own questions or worries! Allow folks to see that if you 'name' the issue that holds such fear/power over alot of folks, it immediately comes down to manageable size, & we can all help each other to move forward.
C'mon folks, I mean, really--tragic war, children dying from lack of health care, people losing their pensions & homes, murder rates going up in cities & suburbs, on & on & on & on.....and we have to waste precious time, energy & effort on worrying who the next guy or gal is sleeping with?!? Honestly. Get a grip. Move on & work on something that is a REAL threat to our country. (You too, Dierdrick!) :-)